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    hey all........been awhile........i've gotton my self deep this time....... my gf is not following my advice which is cause me to be stressed along with depressed..... she has 0 confidence in herself no matter what i do. she recently tried to overdoes herself, which has me questioning wether or not i can trust her anymore that it wont happen again...... i've been in this long distance relationship for about a year now...... and lately i've started to have thoughts of cutting due to the stress of everything thats happened......i need advice before i do something stupid......and advice on how to help her along with how to make this relastionship work......please help.....

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    Hi kirito15,

    I can see how much you're struggling right now, and I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm glad that you came here to reach out for support, though.

    I am concerned about you and how you're feeling right now. Do you have anyone to talk to about what you're going through right now? Talking with someone can help you sort through your feelings. You can always call Your Life Your Voice at 1-800-448-3000. They're available 24/7, and they're so helpful! You can also contact them via text, email, or chat. You can find out more by clicking here.

    It's understandable that you would be feeling worried about your girlfriend. It sounds like she is going through a very difficult time right now and needs support. These fact sheets have some information that might be helpful in this situation:

    http://us.reachout.com/facts/factshe...-about-suicide
    http://us.reachout.com/facts/factshe...ling-depressed

    A long distance relationship can have its own unique challenges, but a relationship like this can be a happy one. Here are some fact sheets that might be helpful to you:

    http://us.reachout.com/facts/factshe...-relationships
    http://us.reachout.com/facts/factshe...y-relationship
    http://us.reachout.com/facts/factshe...ship-pressures

    You are such a caring person to want to support her during such a difficult time. Taking care of you is also important. Do you have any ways to relax and express your own feelings? I know that I like to write in a journal, but maybe you would enjoy something different?

    We're here for you when you need to talk, and we care about you!
    Note: The ReachOut Forums will be suspended after December 31, 2015. All existing threads and posts will still be available to read and review, but no new posts will appear. We hope to gain new funding, and be back soon, but in the meantime, here are some places where you can keep talking and get support:

    -- Your Life Your Voice
    -- Ok2Talk
    -- American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
    -- Trevor Project Trevorspace for LGBTQIA youth
    -- ReachOut Australia forums

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